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Gabbie @GabbiXARC@meow.company
11mo
Do people actually like transfems with deep voices? Personally, I have nothing against anybody with one but myself. It's embarrassing having to hear myself, but a blessing that my friends don't think I'm as annoying as I do. I've been trying to teach myself how to change it with voice training, but those tutorials are very difficult and don't make any sense to me. Trying them out loud puts pits in my stomach and holes in my head. It makes me feel an emotion I don't really know how to explain, other than immediate and dizzying.

Ive been told it's fine, but I really feel like I should have just taken it seriously years ago so it would be easier now. The past is 20/20, I suppose.
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ash @CaptAsh@meow.company
10mo
@GabbiXARC personally i really don't mind it!! but it's always best to go the route to get the results you feel the most comfortable with. This is about how you want to be presented first and foremost.

From what I know, voice training is really difficult and hard not to cringe at but if you want to sound different, you gotta power through it and I'm sure you'll get results that you're happy with.
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Gabbie @GabbiXARC@meow.company
10mo
@CaptAsh I just feel like I should have already done it, you know? It's hard to get through and I fear it's one of the things I just can't stomach. My own attempts end in failure, and I feel even worse that I'm letting people down. My representation of myself is so grand, the design is so specific and very much appealing, but then you hear the person behind it. Shatters the illusion and disappoints everyone.

I know the people I know respect it, including you, but in the back of my head it feels like pity.
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ash @CaptAsh@meow.company
10mo
@GabbiXARC I feel you're thinking too much, that you doubt people won't accept you as you are. You aren't letting people down.

in my eyes, voice training is a game of persistence, you gotta just sit with how grating it can be. I tried to learn how to sing, it's not the same but I absolutely see where you're coming from.
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